Underwear and exhibition

[microbguy]

I would like to ask the members here about their motivations for freeballing. I see that some think it is a sexual thing. In all honesty, at times it is. For the most part I enjoy nudity, with men or women, as recreation. I do not see nudity or wanting to be nude as a sexual thing, it could lead to it, but not a direct thing. I freeball because it feels good, I do not like the feel of underwear, (loose boxers are ok sometimes, whitey tighties not ok) and if some others guys like to check me out to see if I am freeballing, that is fine. I am not gay, but have gay friends. They tell me freeballing is a fun thing, but not always sexual. I do believe that most men will look at other men to check them out to compare size and how "it" looks. If this is a homosexual activity, them most men are homosexual at times. I would like to know if other readers here agree with these comments or think I am out there. happy hanging!

[ible]

I am a home nudist, and when I am out in public not wearing undies is my way of still being a tad nude. When I am at work, I wear boxers. My job actually has in our dress code that underwear must be worn. I love summer and the hotter the better. I also love to work around the yard, and frequently wear shorter than normal shorts while freeballing. I have been known to peek out a bit when I bend over or stoop down. I have a 0G P.A. too, which adds a bit of swing to one's step! I guess that means I am a bit of an exhibitionist but I really don't like being noticed. Yes, I know that is odd.

[Alex]

I like the feeling of my balls being free hanging even in snug 501's & the prominant bulge of my dick, just feels good especially when getting aroused, which I frequenty do.
Levi's tend to fade the most where there's the most wear, like from manhandling my own cock.

[Moose]

To me it's both effort and comfort. I can't stand wearing boxers under shorts, so I always freeball in them. In jeans I'm not too bothered and usually just stay with what I'm wearing at the time. If I put jeans on first thing in the morning, I freeball (I sleep naked), but if I change my work trousers to jeans, I typically just leave the boxers on.

[kwp99]

I originally started freeballing at around 12 because it felt sexy, but now I feel more comfortable without underwear and rarely wear them. I also still think it's sexy.

[Hanger]

For me it started as a sexual thing in my 20s. I always felt randy without underwear so did it most of the time to keep aroused. In the days of tight stretch slacks I had to wear underwear to work but weekends I freeballed with my cock down one leg and balls down the other. Nobody ever had any doubts about what I was wearing.

Now it is more for comfort. I am well-hung and having it all squeezed together, hot and sweaty is really uncomfortable. In shorts, the breeze can circulate to keep me cool whether sitting or standing. I prefer my jeans and slacks loose to allow movement. Tight jeans are no less uncomfortable than tighty-whities when they give ball-ache. Relaxed fit jeans give me room to move.

[kwp99]

The original message mentioned exhibition. I don't freeball BECAUSE I want people to see anything, but I like to dress so that people can see that I'm freeballing. I admit there's a fine line between the two, but really when I first started freeballing it was just for myself. I was afraid for anyone to find out. Over time I became more confident with freeballing and started to dress in such a way that people could tell I was freeballing. At one time I used to wear short cutoff jeans or jeans with holes in the back usually at the corners of the pockets. I often like to wear really lowrise jeans that show my butt when I sit or bend over and show pubes in front. My lowest jeans show cleavage in back even when I'm standing up straight. I also have some thin linen pants that you can kinda see thru and some shorts with a mesh panel that you can see thru and tell I'm naked underneath. The shorts are cool because you can see a lot, but you can just as easily not notice anything. I was wearing them out with a friend of mine and he didn't notice them until we'd been out over an hour, but when he did notice he couldn't believe I'd wear them in public.

Lately I've been wearing loose overalls where you can see that I'm naked underneath them because you can see my naked hips or even look down into them if you have the right position and lighting. I also have some overalls that have the bib in front, but just have a regular jeans waistband in the back with straps that connect from the bib in front over the shoulder to the waistband in back. I have them a size too big so that they are a bit baggy, but because they are supported by the shoulder straps they don't sag, but you can easily look down the back of them.

[Triangle]

I'm totally with Hanger and kwp99. I too like to dress so that it can be seen that I'm freeballing. Especially in bars or clubs. Low jeans, opaque white shorts and linen trousers are faves of mine.

I was at Brighton Pride 2 weekends back and I saw a lot sightings of low rise jeans with pubes sticking out the top and freeballing boys. I even saw a bloke climb over a fence wearing this pair of dungarees which barely covered him at the front. The front panel was loose and from the side you could see the side of his arse and the suggestion of where his crotch was. He also had a female mate who also wasn't wearing underwear as her skirt went right up as she climbed over the fence.

kwp and Hanger - you should post some pictures.

[Hanger]

I am totally for females in skirts or dresses with no underwear. Unfortunately, I don't get to catch the right view often enough.

I have read somewhere that 1 in 3 women go without underwear regularly. I just wish that I could talk my wife into becoming one of them. I would enjoy going out with her, knowing that she is feeling the breeze and will occasionally show her stuff by sitting carelessly, just as I do.

[PEN15]

Hi guys, what's this

kwp99
501's
0G P.A.


mentioned above ?

[kwp99]

Hi guys, what's this

kwp99
501's
0G P.A.


mentioned above ?

kwp99 is one of the members (me) who posted a couple of messages above.

501's are a style of Levi Strauss jeans that has a buttons rather than a zipper.

"0G P.A." is a zero gauge Prince Albert ring. A Prince Albert ring goes in through the urethra and out behind the head of the penis. 0 gauge is one of the thickest size metal rings. 0 gauge indicates the thickness of the metal, not the diameter of the ring. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prince_Albert_piercing

[skidder86]

Ouch!!! No thanks. I cant imagine having one. How does it affect penetration or do you have to remove it? To each his own.

[sunbuns]

I am a home nudist, and when I am out in public not wearing undies is my way of still being a tad nude. I also love to work around the yard, and frequently wear shorter than normal shorts while freeballing. I have been known to peek out a bit when I bend over or stoop down. I guess that means I am a bit of an exhibitionist but I really don't like being noticed. Yes, I know that is odd.

I hear what you're saying, ible, and it fits for me (somewhat, too). You said you are " a bit of an exhibitionist but don't really like being noticed." -- I just heard of a 'new' name of that: a 'metafetish'. What does it mean? Hell if I can explain it - but someday I'll give it a shot. Well.. at least it sounds cool.

The idea of being seen nude (and admired) by others (males in my case) is an alluring idea. But once I get to a locker room or nude beach.. my dick shrivels up - unless someone takes a noticeable interest in my exposed anatomy.

To answer the question that was the reason for this thread....

I'd say it about 30% (comfort - I like my cock and balls to be free to swing and have air around them). Why only 30% because I can't actually always freeball and the other portion of the time, I'd rather just be naked - no clothes at all), 30% comes from a desire to be a member of something - male / man / freeballer / advocate for freedom in life's choice, etc so I think that's an identity thing - personal and social identity - choose to freeball and to be vocal about it is making a self-determining personal lifestyle choice and also becoming a member of a group (the most basic group is: human male. Maybe the fact that I grew up when even the slightest sexual preference for masculine or maleness was considered to be the most unholy of perversions.
Freeballing is a 'cool' thing too - society seems to take notice of 'small' things - like what celebrity is freeballing, for example.

The next 30% comes from some urge (or 'meta-urge' *lol*) to show off my body & genitals (don't ask me why or to explain it since it's not something rational - just an instinctual urge) (Besides, I spend far too much time intellectualizing about the nature of sexuality and the rest of the life - just read my old posts and my current blogs for proof of that.).

The final 10% is idunno... what? It's a mix of different reasons / reactions / objectives...
Maybe it's to test people out - see who notices and wants to identify himself as a fellow 'freeballer' It is a kind of silent, non-verbal communication and I don't mean finding 'sex' partners either - so it's not gaydar.
It saves time and effort - less time to dress - no underwear to wash, dry, fold, put away or pack (for travel).
It helps keep me young (in mind, heart and body) -- well.. it's basic a healthy life 'stance' -- eating healthy (more fiber .. less meat), more exercise.. no underwear - somehow it seems to go together...

Two of my 'exhibitionist' freeballing outfits:



Normally, only worn at home - except if I'm needing some sunshine or over-stimulated.



This was my 'swimsuit' (beach attire) at Provincetown a few summers ago. Herring Cove Beach is (hopefully still) clothing optional in certain parts of the beach.

Kelly

[jamieeee]

wow, those long shorts dont leave much to the imagination

[meatyjon]

how can i show pic in forum?

[Triangle]

Upload to the gallery on the front page.

[sert289]

I started to freeball since I am not comfortable in any kind of underwear. But I must admit that it gives a sexual feeling when others realise or learn that I freeball:). I think the biggest problem of freeballing is the risk of torn trousers and zippers which may cause problems. A week ago my zipper stuck after peeing at work. Thx god I had my shirt tucked in and home was close, I went home and changed my trousers.
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[sunbuns]

We discussed this earlier (actually months ago) - look back at an old topic for the details.

Basically, there are three things you need.

1) The photo has to be on the Net somewhere (or you must upload it somewhere that you can 'find/access' its URL (web address).
2) You have to put a BB code around the photo's URL. (no extra spaces). Those codes are visible at the top of the little edit window when you compose a message or reply.
3) Under some conditions, the photo will not show up or be displayed (security or privacy controls may be in place on the host server.) In that case, surround the photo's URL by the URL bb code - so readers can just click the link and open it outside of the message.


To Insert an image: (alt+p)
(note above model for BB code may not show up)

You can probably do as Triangle says, upload it to the gallery (or some other webpage or site or photo-sharing service). Glowfoto. com is free, so is Flickr.com but has too many restrictions about copyrighted/explicit. Join a Ning Network and you can upload photos (and also vids) and then place them in this and other sites.
May be not surprisingly, you can also upload photos (many as one with a free app download) if you have a free Google account. Look at Google Photos (called Picasa). Each photo has an embed code (won't work on a php BB (this kind of forum) and an URL and you can also make slideshows of these pics (choosing who you want to see them or not).

There are some quirks about using Picasa pics / albums as you can see from my final experiement below. Private photos could not be display but public one's could (sort of accidently using the Embed code) - Weird !?

I tried Triangle in work pants (from the gallery) but couldn't get it to work, except the URL.

http://www.freeballing.com/gallery/view_photo.php?set_albumName=members&id=DSC00062

How to do it: These basic three steps work most of the time (I put some examples below and also some examples that DO NO work or not as expected).

1. Locate the photo's URL. (Open the photo in its own window (and the URL will be at the top of the browser. Or.. left click a photo (if it's the right size and then choose Properties; from there you can copy the URL)>

2. Then copy and paste the URL of the photos into your message.

3. Enclose it within the IMG bbcode (open Square Brackets the word + IMG + close square bracket) at the immediately before the URL and immediately after put the closing IMG bbcode (open Square Brackets then / (slash) the word + IMG + close square bracket)

(Put your cursor over the Img button and you can see a model of the correct bb code).


Trial samples:

A. The photo below is hidden behind the Ning log-in. It's a photo viewable by any member, but it does show up here.

A pic of me freeballing outdoors in mesh athlete shorts (below)



B. This is a photo that is in my Ning CMNM gallery - but it is designated "for friends only" in my Ning network. However, it also shows up here. (at least for now).
It was put here to see if it shows up -- do you see the guy showing off his ass to all the other guys? By the way, sometimes the host site 'catches' up with you for linking or posting a 'private' photo and the server will eventually pull the plug on it (and so it disappears).




C. You can make LINKS instead of posting the photo itself:

http://guysn2cmnm.ning.com/profile/dtyqe1uhspvz

1. Above is the link to my Guys Into CMNM on Ning.com profile (My Page)


2. This Ning network is my latest Net project - a new Ning network that I have started for guys interested in clothed male / naked male scenes. About 40 have joined this week - I just discovered Ning recently -- don't know if it will last - It may be deleted since 'explicit or adult' network in Ning are supposed to be private (by invitation) only. This one requires registration in order to get passed the first page.

3. Example of a link that opens the web page with a photo ( or a video in this case).

http://jp.youtube.com/watch?v=mlCHqNM2RNg

Ooops... for a certain reason it does NOT work ? -- Do you know why? You guessed it. An extra space -- it's easy to overlook.

However the same link below (with the 'extra' space removed) It should work but doesn't (What the hell?? I can't explain why it works sometimes and doesn't work other times).

http://jp.youtube.com/watch?v=mlCHqNM2RNg

This should work below. It is the same URL link (to the YouTube video above) but I am making it a text link (URL is not show). By the way, a photo link is also possible.

Youtube: Freeballing in Cancun a video (may not be available long - because they get deleted or removed).

D. Here are some thumbnails photos from one of my Glowfoto albums. It's private but it will the thumbs will show up. (I can't remember the password - -try the word: buddy.





These 'thumbs' are linked to the album in Glowfoto - so it's possible to display a photo and make it also a LINK to something with a message.


Syntax: [SqBr URL=http:// SqBr] [SqBr IMG SqBr]put IMG URL here [SqBr /IMG SqBr] [SqBr /URL SqBr]

(remember: no spaces allowed)

Final 2 Trial pics (below);

1. First one is private photo that I used in a Blogger blog, but it is marked 'private - my view only" in Picasa. I want to see if those pics in my Google photo gallery (called Picasa) marked private will show here.
2. The second one is a 'public' photo from the same source: my Google Photos albums (public one).
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Note: A free google account comes with free email account, free photos gallery (Picasa) and free online applications and storage, along with a free website (wiki based visual editor instead of HTML)

#1


#2
A link to another photo (It's me on a nudist beach in Hawaii - I guess I' getting older and not in such great shape anymore. )

[url]http://picasaweb.google.com/lh/photo/ofY2vleKszvbNkQjTlvb3Q[/url]

That photo itself (should be displayed -- although it was not below)



**** Strange -- how things sometimes work with one host site, but not others. Sometimes you have to experiment as I have done here.
Oh well... hope you get the idea.

[bbryant]

Freeballing is definitely fun and sexy beside being very comfortable!